How to “Define Yourself or Be Defined”

 

Looking for INCREASED  respect  or value in the workplace, your household or community?  Tired of the way “folks”  view you, your brand as average, mundane or always available?  Wonder why you are NOT the first choice for the best  opportunities?    Are you ready and willing to do what is necessary… to change all of that?  Here is an excerpt of the Power of Self-awareness and defining your brand  from our Book “A Mind to work”.   Change your game “right now” with these redefining techniques.

  • If you want the world to receive you in a certain way,  you must set the tone.  The power is resting with you, why don’t you use it?  If you want respect, command it; if you want honesty, don’t tolerate dishonesty; if you want truth, don’t be happy with lies, and only respond to the name that was given to you.
  • People will treat you the way you allow them to.  Define yourself! If you don’t, society will; for many of us, society already has.  You have heard some of the words, slow, dumb, female (instead of woman), male (instead of man), dislocated worker, unemployed, disabled, dysfunctional…I think you get my point.
  • Let’s not forget our part in the above labeling process (a.k.a. self-labels).  Many of us find comfort in those labels and are the first to use that category to describe ourselves.  We have eagerly embraced the terminology, limits, and lifestyle associated with life stealing labels.  I don’t mean to burst your spirit, but in the words of the late Malcolm X, as stated in Iyanla Vanzant’s, book Acts of Faith  You’ve been tricked!  You’ve been had!  Hoodwinked!  Bamboozled!” (Page 2/26).
  • Define yourself or be defined; there is more to you than a label and limits.  You need to set your tone, know your name and set your expectations. I don’t even want to go to those other words that people have responded to, well let me give you a hint to name a few:  the female dog, the other word for prostitute and the “N” word.  Ladies and gentlemen, from this moment on, please resist from responding to the above-mentioned jargon, no matter how down it is.  Now let me correct myself, if you are one of those things, please respond—accordingly.   Then the world and I will know exactly how you want to be treated.

 

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