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Not Getting Hired? Here’s Why (TCE Tough Love)

Looking for work can be stressful. When we don’t get hired we often say things like: why aren’t they calling me back, I know I crushed the interview but why didn’t they hire me! Then of course there is the, I’m overqualified, that’s why I am not getting hired! We’ve all been there, submitting those resume, going to the interviews and nothing happens. What’s the real deal here, is it the employer or is it you? Truth be told, maybe it’s a bit of both! So, never fear, the Career Engineer is here to share some REAL TCE Tough love to share what employers want and how you can meet the need.

 

 

Why Am I NOT Getting Hired?

  • YOU DON’T HAVE the skills they need: It’s NOT about what you can do; it’s about what they need. If the job requires 5 years of “thus and so” and you have 2 years and still apply…yikes! If the job prefers a Bachelor’s degree and you apply with a PhD…well? TCE Example: Employer needs a hammer but you keep sending the duck tape, lawn mower, power drill and forklift resume…get it!

 

  • YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: Still applying for ANYTHING and EVERYTHING! This demonstrates lack of focus, planning, strategy, research, and preparation skills. Would you hire someone who throws a ball in the air and HOPE it hits the target?

 

  • YOUR INTERVIEWS NEED WORK: Just the facts…oh and some great stories. An interview is a meeting of the mind, body, soul, spirit and yes skills. This is where you are being accessed (all of you). By the way, you have maybe 30 minutes to SELL your gifts, talents, energy, personality, passion, knowledge, ability, job interest and skills. (So Practice!)

 

  • YOUR resumes are confusing: Plus you have too many of them! Your resume should showcase what you WANT and what you have DONE with what you’ve GOT! It should speak to your Performance, Accomplishments and Leadership (P.A.L.), passion and personality. It’s your first work sample…not something you just throw together.

 

  • YOU’RE NOT A GOOD FIT: Failure happens when you try to be something that you are not! Forcing a square peg (with skills) into a round hole (need skills)…will not work. Employer hire for skill, talent and ability…but they also hire for likability and “goodness of fit” as well. Do your research and find the right company, culture and management style that works for you. For example these are all great employers with a big difference in workplace culture (Google, Amazon, USgov, Pfizer, Costco).

Learn what Employers and CEO’s Want: Saturday, October 21, TCE Career & Biz Breakfast & Summit “The POWER of NOW & NEXT!” http://TCEsummit.com & http://Facebook.com/TCEconference

When YOU Purchase a Ticket, We DONATE a Ticket in honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month

 

 

Yes I Have Breast Cancer…But I STILL Need to Work!

TCE Summit Helps Employees and Breast Cancer Survivors to Stay Employed!

According to the BreastCancer.org, “…in 2017, an estimated 252,710 new cases of invasive breast cancer are expected to be diagnosed in women in the U.S. As of March 2017, there are more than 3.1 million women with a history of breast cancer in the U.S. This includes women currently being treated and women who have finished treatment.” I know, I am one of them. In 2016, I was diagnosed with a surprise Stage 3, Triple Negative Breast Cancer followed by aggressive chemotherapy and radiation. “It’s a tough time for many women who are anxious about their appearance, dignity, self-esteem and paying their bills.” says Francina R. Harrison, MSW, known nationally as “The Career Engineer®” (TCE).

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Don’t Get Anxious – Get Prepared! In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, for every paid registration, The Career Engineer will provide one (1) complimentary TCE Career & Business Breakfast and Summit ticket for a breast cancer patient or survivor who is still working but anxious about their career or business future. I’ve talked to women in the workforce who are fearful about breast cancer treatment and how it will impact their careers or future. During my journey, powered by fierce faith and TCE “mental Push-Ups”, I stayed in business, spoke at conferences and appeared on TV (often the day after chemo)! That’s why this year’s theme, “The POWER of NOW & NEXT”, is so important. I have learned that when bad news hits us, it’s what we do NEXT ..that matters,” says The Career Engineer, the TCE Summit Breakfast keynote speaker.

ABOUT THE SUMMIT

The 8th Annual TCE Career, Life & Business Breakfast and Summit will be held at the Wyndham Virginia Beach Oceanfront Hotel on Saturday, October 21, 2017. Attendees will have Saturday access to human resources, CEO’s, decision makers, career and business opportunities, intelligence, success strategies and “high-touch and hi-tech” networking and more. There will be boutique engagements and QA sessions at the Summit as well as Friday evening and Saturday summit receptions. “It’s all building REALationshipsSM, increasing motivation, empowerment, impact, potential and encouraging professionals to shift from NOW to NEXT,” says Francina Harrison, The Career Engineer.

Featured Business Panelists: Wesley Jones, COO of Crewestone Technology national/international multimedia, marketing media and technology firm; Stacey Mansfield, Director of Corporate Communication of Norfolk Southern Corporation; Brenda Walker-Moton, Atlanta Based Film Director & Executive Producer; and Duane Thompson, Author, CEO of Sabrosa Foods Inc., 8(a) certified, operates both the Sabrosa Foods Service & Asorbas Product Brand Manufacturing Divisions.

Featured Career Panelists: Ms. Danielle Dutton, MS, PHR, Office of Civilian Human Resources (Federal Government); Dr. Phyllis Slade Martin, DMV Based CEO of Slade and Associates, research & organizational consulting;  Ms. Michelle Larkin, Division Manager on the Langley Administrative, Media and Professional Services (LAMPS) contract at NASA Langley; and renowned Clinical Psychologist, Mary H. Walden, Department of the Navy (DON), Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) Program Manager in the EEO Center of Excellence Office and Professor & CEO, Dr. Portia Rawles of DrPortiaRawles.com, speaking on workplace health and stress.

Invited Virtual Guest: CEO Alex Khan, Germany Based digital thought leader who teaches 1000s of people daily how to gain reach via social media and turn it into profit.

For information on this event give The Career Engineer a call at 757-745-4823 (4TCE).  To get tickets and/or support this campaign please visit http://TCESummit.com or give The Career Engineer a call at 757-745-4823. This event is sponsored by The Career Engineer http://TCEnow.com TCE Network http://MyTCEnow.com, Urban League of Hampton Roads, and DrPortiaRawles.com .


The Career Engineer® (TCE) , http://TCEnow.com/, is a nationally recognized Virginia-based consulting firm that helps job hunters & business owners increase impact and potential with career coaching strategies, social visibility platform building and procurement connections. TCE has been a featured panelist at the 2016 National Urban League Conference (Baltimore), Voted 2014 Radio Producer of the Year (SEVAA), 2010 Women in Business Achievement Award (Inside Business), featured on the TJMS, BlackEnterprise.com, Chicago Tribune and is a recurring expert on WAVY10 and media across the USA.

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How Faith, Castor Oil, Chemo & Showing Up, Healed ME!

So I shared some “Healing Tips” on my TCE Instagram account on things  I did during my Stage  3  Cancer treatments that helped me get thru it in an uncommon way.   What’s also interesting, is that I continued using this regimen  and it has helped me to feel even better post-chemo and radiation treatment. So when I share this on Instagram , it seemed to produce interest,  curiosity and more!  In fact , it was suggested by a follower…that these  tips should be published. So I figured, why not blog about it.

But first let me do the legal thing.   I am not a doctor  or a medical professional so please be aware that the results that happened to me may be different, don’t work for you or it could be better. My lawyer is happy that I cleared that up.  But what I WILL SAY, and what  I am… is a stage 3,triple negative, spread to my nodes,  breast cancer conqueror  (I’m not a survivor) was healed  in 366 days and who seem to have tolerated chemo without the extreme sickness. extreme fatigue or physical complications.

So….here are those tips and I hope they bless someone.

MY HEALING REGIMEN:  Of Course I activated my faith, prayed, did 5 months of aggressive chemo, 4 Neulasta shots, weekly lab work, 5 surgeries  and  6 weeks of daily radiation! Oh did you see my LAST DAY OF TREATMENT video on youtube, I’m not glamorous, it’s pretty encouraging, but get some tissue!!!

DURING TREATMENT:  I also drank half my bodyweight in water 3 days before and after chemo,  used castor oil (mixed with rosemary and lavender) on my body, nails, skin, brows, hair and eyelashes..even as the hair said “good bye”.   Let me be 100% truthful, I shaved my head at 6 weeks when it started to come out.

Let me not forget to mention my Black Soap by Rafiki skin Care (amazing on my troubled skin).  Also took my daily apple cider vinegar cocktail in the morning, stayed engaged in my career, life and business and took naps lol. Folks getting up, everyday, getting dressed, staying engaged in LIFE is the key.  Oh, I also laughed a lot, told jokes and did the wobble as much as possible (yes the line dance).

All I can say, skin glowed, nails grew, no nausea, no bone pain, no mouth sores, nails did not fall off (in fact they grew), no weight loss, energy (not like before cancer) but it was workable. Proof of energy are my local – national speaking event, interviewing amazing people like Coach Mike Tomlin and coordinated the 2016 TCE Summit (which was a success, yep 2017 is planned on Oct 21, 2017).  All of my speaking events happened the day AFTER chemo ; yeah that’s how GOD works.  Oh yeah , that chemo fog thing (hum..I don’t think so lol)

AFTER TREATMENT: I STILL DAILY EAGLE UP, FAITH UP, THANK GOD  HOURLY,  take my  daily vitamin, castor oil regimen (skin, nails, eyes, hair, brows, lashes), water,  apple cider vinegar cocktail, added Coq10, b12, B6 and iron pills to help red blood cells and reduce chemo induced anemia, neuropathy.  Dancing 30 minutes (when no one is watching), getting some REAL Sun, and doing house work more (hey its exercise.)

So, that’s what I did and now I LIVE every day…like I’m dying!  (Meaning  well, because according to science, our cells die…daily; so don’t waste your days folks, make sure they count for something).  In fact, I redesigned a group of mine on Facebook called “Don’t Get Anxious”  to help others to keep it moving and flowing, in-spite of LIFE’s obstacles.  You are welcomed to join the group, share your wisdom and share the group with others.

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